1:1 Sessions, OKC & worldwide via zoom
I help individuals and couples feel more at home in their bodies and freer in their sexuality.
Through somatic sex education and bodywork, we make room for deeper intimacy & more pleasure,
maybe right now...
your body seems always tense and you feel stressed and disconnected from yourself.
sex has become something you do rather than something you enjoy. you do it to accommodate your partner and wonder where your own desire went.
shame, trauma or old conditioning still define your sexuality.religious beliefs and past experiences make it difficult for you to let yourself love what you love.
you don't feel at home in your body. you self-criticise and struggle to be in your own skin.
you've lost your sensual self in motherhood. somewhere between caring for everyone else and the demands on your body, your own desires have gone quiet.
intimacy with your partner feels complicated. you crave more connection but find yourselves caught in familiar patterns or mismatched desire.
your have been through a transition, and you feel disoriented in this new body. pregnancy, birth, surgery, illness, menopause, divorce, or grief have altered how you experience yourself and find pleasure.
you struggle with arousal or orgasm, or feel pressure to perform. your head keeps taking over.
nothing is necessarily wrong but you are hungry for more.
imagine instead...
your body unwinds. you notice its sensations and you have the capacity to feel your life.
you feel free to choose intimacy and no longer have sex out of obligation.
you sexuality becomes yours. you decide what you value and let your body feel pleasure without guilt.
you look into the mirror and begin to love what you see.
you allow yourself to be a sexual being. you make space for your own needs and value your own pleasure knowing that it makes you a more resiliant and authentic mother.
you learn to voice, receive and care for each others needs and you find creative new ways to enjoy closeness and eroticism.
you are befriending the body you inhabit now and discover a whole new world of sexual satisfaction.
you take all pressure off and discover what feels good moment to moment.
you let yourself play in the erotic. you explore fantasy, or kink. simply because you are curious about what turns you on.
more reasons to work with me
Cesarean, EPISIOTOMY and other surgical scars ~ Changes in libido or arousal ~ Difficulty reaching orgasm · wanting better orgarms ~ Pain or discomfort during sex ~ Pregnancy and postpartum sexuality ~ Perimenopause, Menopause & MIDLIFE AWAKENING ~ Body image, BODY DYSmorphia & BODY DYSPHORIA ~ ERECTILE DYSFUCNTION ~ PORN ADDICTION ~ Sexual fawning ~ Consent and boundaries ~ Self PLEASURE ~ Erotic anatomy ~ Fantasy and kink.
For couples
Different levels of desire ~ Loss of erotic connection ~ Sex that feels routine or obligatory ~ Difficulty communicating needs and boundaries ~ Intimacy after parenthood ~ Navigating changes in sexual function ~ Exploring fantasies, kink and new ways of being intimate
depending on what we're exploring, we might work with breath, movement, body awareness, consent practices, pleasure education or hands-on bodywork, where appropriate.
my approach is trauma-informed, ceremonial and deeply present. We move at the pace of your nervous system, allowing curiosity to guide us and making room for whatever unfolds.
we make time to integrate.
before we finish, we notice what you experienced and how you might bring those discoveries into everyday life.
sometimes a small experience in the body can begin to change a story you've carried for years.
we always begin by arriving gently, noticing what is present, what feels important today, you don’t have to know when you come in. we build trust together, find an intention for our session and talk about what feels comfortable, including your boundaries and preferences.
There are the things we understand with the mind. and then there are the transformations that happen when we bring the body into the conversation.
No two bodies are alike, so no two sessions are alike.
PRIVATE In-Person Sessions
90 minutes · $150
This work is most meaningful over time. I see clients weekly, biweekly, or monthly, allowing us to build trust, follow what emerges, and deepen the work at a pace that feels right.
For those wanting a deeper dive, I also offer Private Immersions →
YOU MIGHT BE WONDERING
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This work is for anyone curious about developing a more intimate and pleasurable relationship with their body and sexuality. You don't need to have a particular concern or know exactly what you're looking for.
I welcome individuals and couples of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship structures. Monogamy, polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, and unconventional ways of relating are all welcome here.
My space is LGBTQIA+ affriming.
You get to be who you are and love whomever you may love.
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Not at all. You might arrive with a specific concern, a longing for something different, or simply a curiosity about your body and sexuality.
We can begin exactly where you are and discover together what feels meaningful to explore. There is no right way to arrive and nothing you need to achieve.
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Psychotherapy often works through conversation, reflection and understanding. Somatic sexology brings the body directly into the learning process.
Rather than only talking about desire, boundaries or intimacy, we explore how you experience them through sensation, awareness and practical exercises.
This is an educational and experiential practice, not psychotherapy. I don't diagnose or treat mental health conditions, and this work can beautifully complement therapy or other forms of healthcare.
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Nudity is never a requirement, and touch is never assumed.
Sexological bodywork is about much more than physical touch. We can explore sensation, anatomy, pleasure, boundaries and your relationship with your body through conversation, guided awareness and experiential practices.
Any hands-on work offered within the scope of my practice is discussed beforehand and requires your explicit, ongoing consent.
Your body, your choices, your pace.
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Yes. Your privacy matters deeply to me.
What you share during our sessions is treated with care and confidentiality. I do not share your personal experiences or identifying information without your permission, except where disclosure is required by law or necessary to address an immediate safety concern.
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No. Sexological bodywork is a professional, educational practice, not sex work or a sexual service.
Our work may explore intimate and erotic aspects of your life, but the relationship between practitioner and client remains strictly professional.
I do not engage in sexual activity, sexual gratification services or romantic or sexual relationships with clients.
Any touch within a session is one-way, client-directed, consent-based and limited to the scope of my practice.
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YES PLEASE!I offer virtual sessions for individuals and couples wherever you are, as well as in-person sessions in Oklahoma City.
Much of this work translates beautifully to an online setting, including somatic inquiry, guided practices, sexual education and intimacy exploration.
I am also available to travel for private immersions, depending on location and availability. Let’s talk!